Archive for August, 2009

{Essence of red & turquoise}

Monday, August 31st, 2009

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“where for art thou little holiday?” you ask.  Well its been a rough past week but now I am back and today I am sharing something well … simply enchanting ….

Sources: cake – Luvin’ Sullivan, dishware – Lenox’s Chirp

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Man Search Marketing Plan

Friday, August 28th, 2009

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Recently I met a Lady who described herself as a Recessionista. Now, I’ve heard of a fashionista and barista, but never a Recessionista. She explained that despite the bad job market and difficulties finding work she maintains a positive attitude towards her job search. We talked about her job search marketing plan; from registering on every employment website, to weekly networking events, to telling everyone she meets that she is looking. About an hour later, we said our goodbyes and I left her knowing that it was a just matter of time before she found a job. She never once complained about the lack of jobs or her situation…she was DETERMINED…she was a Recessionista.
Soon after, it came to me. For all of my Single Lady friends who are making their way through this difficult Man market, they should have a plan similar to the Recessionista’s job search plan. So, on this Single Ladies’ Friday, I thought I would lay out 5 key items for a “Man Search Marketing Plan.” Here goes:

Take Action – Post your resume on as many employment websites as possible.

Man Search Translation: There are over twenty online dating websites out there…choose 4. Find the ones that best suit your personality and consider posting your profile on at least 2 sites. Posting on more sites will only increase your visibility and odds of filling up your weekends with back to back dates.

Let people know that you are looking – Reach out to new and former contacts.

Man Search Translation: This speaks for itself. Tell your cousins, your co-workers, gym partner, your brother and your cousin’s cousin that you’re on the Man market. Say yes to all blind dates, even if your Mom hooked you up.

Create a Unique Brand Identity – Distinguish yourself from the other many candidates.

Man Search Translation: Pull out your best pictures (toot your own horn) and make your profile interesting. There are more women on dating websites than men…so make sure you stand out. Identify your strengths and best assets.

Be Prepared – Ready your elevator pitch and interview suits.
Man Search Translation: Have your laid back “let’s meet for coffee” outfit ready and your “freak-um dress” on standby. Make a great first impression and don’t forget to get your flirt on.

Attend Networking Events – Interact with employers who may have openings with their company.
Man Search Translation: Go where the guys are. Leave the sweatsuit at home, put your stilettos on and head to the car wash. Ladies, (trust me on this one) Saturday mornings at the Car Wash…that is where it’s at! They are there doting on their cars and rims and talking to other men about cars. If you don’t have a car…Home Depot and the dry cleaners are also good “networking” spots.

So, there you have it. Forget the bad Man market and the difficulties you are having finding a Man. On this Single Ladies Friday, I say… get your “Man Search Marketing Plan” together and become a getmanista??? LOL!

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{Put a ring on it}

Friday, August 21st, 2009

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In two weeks I will be celebrating my “he put a ring on it” Anniversary.  Two months after we met, Sean proposed.  Recently I asked him what motivated him to propose so quickly.  His response:  “Most guys over 30 know when she’s the one after the first date.”   I wish my friend Mary and some of my other not so single friends understood how the male mind works.

Mary dated Doug all through college. Four years after college they were still dating.  Of course, whenever someone would ask when they were getting married she made up an excuse for him.  Sometimes she would say that he was saving up for the ring.  Then it was when he finished grad school.    At one point she had even convinced herself that she was fine with their relationship the way it was.

In thinking about Sean’s reply and Mary’s situation I asked 3 of my guy friends what made them propose when they did.

Rich’s Answer:                  Couldn’t sleep on a good thing

Anthony’s Answer:         I wasn’t going to let another guy beat me to it

Pierre’s Answer:              Her Mom made me do it…

Pierre laughed and continued “I was going to do it anyway, she’s amazing.”  All of my guy friends agreed that it does not take a Man more than 2 years to know when he has found the perfect woman.  They also agreed that if a Man plans to marry a Woman it certainly would not take 8 years for him to propose.  Seven months after Mary and Doug broke up; we heard through the grapevine that Doug was engaged.

Marriage is certainly not for everyone.  But, Ladies if you want the vows and picket fence please do not wait too long for him to pop the question.  You know if the time is right.  And, he knew from Day 1 if you were the one.

So, on this Single Ladies Friday, I am telling all of my quasi-single friends…  If he likes it, he will put a ring on it (right away).

RoseyYnot – Contributing Editor

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{ Artisanal Ice Cream Truck }

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

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Of course New Yorkers can never be satisfied with just Mr. Softee or the Circus Man.  Window shopping in Soho yesterday I spotted the Van Leeuwan ice  cream truck, the purveyor of gourmet organic ice cream.  Of course in total New York fashion there was a line that was at least 30 minutes long.  I pondered  should I … shouldn’t I … hmm …  finally my greed got the best of me and I stood in line in the 92 degrees heat … urrrgh!  I guess it didn’t hurt that the truck was stationed outside the Louis Vuitton store.  That means I was able to multi-task – Sweet!   So, what’s so special about this ice cream?  Well its organic for one and its of course delicious.  After debating flavors, I decided on the Giandujia and Red Currant.  YUM!  No gum paste gook here – all fresh ingredients.  The wait is a bit absurd but I guess it goes with the territory.   Organic ice cream truck does sounds like an environmental oxymoron however but I guess that also goes with the territory.  They have 2 trucks stationed in lower Manhattan and now one in Park Slope.  This is a definite must try!

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{In the Glossies}

Wednesday, August 19th, 2009

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Huge box came in the mail today and I was certainly puzzled -  I didn’t remember ordering anything recently.  We were elated to open the box to find a stack of freshly printed New York  Brides magazines.  Petite-Fête, Custom-Made-Invitations,  has a feature ad in the Fall/Winter issue currently at news stands near you!

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